Tuesday, January 20, 2009

How to be a leader?


We all want to triumph in our life, but it's very difficult. Life puts us in very strong challenges. With our work, with our nature and with our character we have to face them and to through them away.

During all day we pass: stress, tiredness, happiness etc. but what's important is that we have to push away all this fellings that makes us tired in the end of the day.

We all are enclosed by a lot of people, every day of our life, by our friends, our co-workers, our family etc. so our unique world is full of people.

But how we see our self in the middle of this crowd people that by the way surrounds us?
It's very difficult to define it. But I know one thing for sure: we all want to be distinguished by other people.
It's on your needs that sometimes you become the leader of a lot of people.

Why I said that it's on your needs?
Well, because we want to feel that we are realized as human, we want to feel the power that the leader gives us.

Do we want that other people likes us? Of course. We all want that.
Different people have different qualities. So only few people have born qualities to became a leader.
All of us that don't have this qualitys have to work with our self if we want to be a leader.


So we ask a question: How we can be a leader?

Here are some tips that I advice to follow them:

-We have to be a charismatic person: this means that you have to convince other people for example for a problem only with your ability in speech

-You'll need to have strong character

-You'll have to be a person with develop humor cause it's a phrase 'only smart people have smart humor'

-You'll have to be calm in terrible and difficult situations, also patient


And the last but for the importance it has to be the first : you'll have to have faith and believe in yourself.

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